Posted on Wednesday, 5th May 2010 by Catherine
This weekend Mothers everywhere will be celebrating. If you are a mom, have a mom, have someone in your life “like” a mom you should honor that person. It is a day to recognize all the sacrifices and dedication of moms around the world. A day to show your appreciation and your love for that special mom.
There is nothing more amazing than becoming a mom. I remember when my oldest first said “mama”. I thought I could never get sick of hearing that word. (admittedly, there are days now when I think I may loose my mind if I hear someone say “Mooooooomm” again.)
Being a mom is magical, demanding, exhilarating and exhausting. You can’t truly appreciate Mother’s Day until you are a mom. I know most of us would not trade it for the world. I have vivid memories of Mother’s Day growing up. Join me over at Steady Day’s to read about “the perfect Mother’s Day”
Each year for the past 4 years, I have struggled on Mother’s Day. Celebrating being a mom but missing my mom so much it hurts to the core. I always cry. It is hard for my kids to understand because they are busy trying to make my day special. Some say “it gets easier as time goes on” - I disagree.
I think the longer it has been since you have lost a loved one the more difficult it is because your life has moved on, you realize you will never get to share things with that person. You miss of them at a much deeper level. You find a way to go on but it certainly is not easy.
On Mother’s Day, I seek balance. I reflect on my mom and all the amazing things she taught me. I try and celebrate with my kids and dig deep to be happy, not sad. Being a mom is a privilege that should never be taken for granted. Life is short, for some, it is way too short. I take each Mother’s Day as a gift for you never know what is around the corner in life.
How will you be celebrating this special weekend?
May 6th, 2010 at 2:14 pm
Thank you for acknowledging that Mothers Day isn't a "happy" day for everyone. I lost my mom 9 years ago and agree with you that it does not get easier. This will be my first Mothers Day as a mom and it's comforting to know that I won't be the only one crying. I think more attention should be paid to moms who are no longer living and really appreciate your sharing here and at Steady Days.
May 6th, 2010 at 11:03 pm
Well said, Catherine.
May 8th, 2010 at 12:23 am
Sometimes I think I take my moms for granted. Each Mother's Day I have with her, I need to be thankful for her presence in my life. Thanks for the reminder, and I pray you'll have a little more peace this Mother's Day.
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